Most people who get asked to coach Little League aren’t
seasoned professionals. In fact, most are volunteers, parents, or just former
Little Leaguers themselves. As such, a lot of people feel overwhelmed with and
“not cut out for” the job. Don’t worry though. With the help of a few tips, you
can be a great Little League coach in no time at all.
Introduce Yourself
Parents are protective of their kids; it just goes with the
parenting territory. As such, don’t be
surprised if the parents you don’t know
are a little leary of you at first. They just have to get to know you and see
that you have their kids’ best interests at heart. You can speed up this
“getting to know you” process by touching base with parents early on. Call them
up before the first practice and introduce yourself. The fact that you took
extra time out of your day just to say, “hi” and answer any questions about the
coming season will put the parents at ease and make a great impression on them
from the get-go.
Be Firm but Kind
As a coach, it’s your job to lay down the rules. In order to
set a good standard, you want to be firm but still kind and understanding from
the start. For instance, it’s a good idea to create an “attendance policy” for
players. Most coaches, for example, require players to be at every game or
practice unless they have a good reason, such as a family vacation that the
team knows about ahead of time or a sudden illness. Remind parents and players
that unreliability hurts everyone.
Demand Respect
Respect from both players and parents is absolutely
essential for a good season. Remember, you get respect by giving it, so set a
good example for your players by how you treat them. Also, don’t demand respect
just for yourself but also for other players on the team, all staff and volunteers,
umpires, and everyone the members of your team come into contact with.
Let Mistakes Happen
The absolute worst thing you can do as a Little League coach
is to make players feel bad for their mistakes. This won’t win you any parent
fans, and it’s detrimental to young athletes as well. Instead, treat mistakes
as learning experiences and take them as a cue as to what to work on with your
players. Teach these little ones that trying their hardest is what matters the
most.
Have An “Open Door” Policy
Both parents and players need to feel like they can talk to
you, about anything and at anytime. A truly great coach is one who is always
willing to take time out of his day to listen. Allow parents and players to
call, text, email, or visit you- within reason. Knowing what’s going on in your
players’ lives and acting as a true friend and listener will make everyone love
you, and it will make you a truly great coach to boot.
Develop a Good Support System
Even the world’s best coach can’t do everything on his own!
If you try to, you’re going to get burnt out pretty quickly, so don’t be afraid
to ask for and recruit help. Whether it’s a “team mom,” an assistant coach,
parent volunteers, or all of these, having people to help you handle the
responsibility will enable you to get more joy out of the job, and you’ll be a
better coach when you’re less stressed out.
Have Fun!
Above all else, have fun! The experience of coaching Little
League is supposed to be enjoyable. There is nothing wrong with taking your
position as coach seriously, but remember, you’re coaching kids, not
professionals. So, it’s okay to take a day to goof off during practice or to
hold a big celebration whether the team wins or loses. At the end of the day,
the biggest and most positive impression you’ll make comes from just loving
these kids and helping them to have fun and enjoy what they’re doing.
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