As a parent, you undoubtedly want your child to have fun while playing youth baseball and to play to the best of his or her abilities. You can
achieve these goals, at least in part, through practice and honing physical and
playing skills. However, the right mental skills and mindset are just as
important but often overlooked. It is as necessary for your child to develop
“mental toughness” as it is for him or her to develop physical toughness.
What, exactly, is mental toughness you may ask. Mental
toughness is something all the best players
have. It is that elusive thing that
keeps them from just giving up when the going gets tough and that allows them
to perform at their fullest capability no matter how bad the game looks or what
other issues are weighing at the back of their minds.
Mental toughness isn’t something that most young players
just innately have. Instead, it is something that be developed and honed with
time and experience. You can help to promote the development of mental strength
by encouraging your child to keep going after a loss, when a game is going
poorly, or even when he or she is frustrated and discouraged over a difficult
to learn skill or some other challenge.
Fortunately, participating in sports, in and of itself, can
help a child to develop this all important skill. In fact, sports of all types,
not just baseball, have been shown to increase discipline, positivity, and
endurance, so you may want to encourage your little one to take part in other
character-building sports as well.
Remember, too, that developing mental toughness isn’t
something that should be focused on just during game time. No, practices,
training, exercising, and even making healthy food choices can all provide
opportunities to hone mental strength.
So, what are the characteristics or markers of a mentally
tough young athlete? Some include:
l Having
confidence in oneself and one’s abilities without being cocky
l Being
intrinsically motivated to play and practice.
l Focused
on the game, practice, or other task at hand.
l Always
keeping the outcome of an action in mind.
l Staying
cool, calm, and collected under pressure.
l Having
control over oneself and one’s actions.
l Being
positive.
l Refusing
to give up.
No child or no person for that matter can be perfect all the
time, so don’t be discouraged if some of the above traits are missing in your
child. In fact, knowing what you need to work on can be a great thing, as long
as you and your child actually work on those skills/traits thereafter!
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